Everybody wants to succeed. Nobody wants to fail intentionally. Through my years of experience I have seen four things that sabotage success in most cases.
1. EXPECTING IT ALL RIGHT NOW
When you set an intention, you are creating a massive ripple of events that must take place within the Universe in order for your desire to come to fruition. Sometimes it is only one domino that needs to fall but sometimes the entire Universe flips itself inside out in order to give you what you want.
Instead of giving up after five minutes, trust in the process and loosen up on your attachments to when and how it all happens. The Universe is taking trillions of requests every millisecond – yours might take a bit of time to align with.
2. DREAMING BIG BUT NOT TAKING ANY ACTION
If you’re dreaming bigger than your basic needs, then chances are you’re going to have to step beyond your comfort barriers, do some things you’ve never tried before and grow in the process of turning your intentions into real experiences or things. Action will be required. Probably lots of it!
3. DOUBTING IN YOUR ABILITY TO CREATE WHAT YOU WANT
The moment you doubt yourself, you immediately deflect all of the blessings, miracles or you at least fog your ability to see and respond to them. Whatever your dream is, the journey is ultimately just you learning to believe in yourself to be the one to create it. Once you trust in yourself you are able to handle any obstacle in your path.
4. NEVER ASKING FOR HELP
If you’re too proud to ask them for help or communicate what you need, then chances are you’ll get stuck somewhere and end up spinning your wheels till your next lifetime. Perhaps “putting it out there” to people isn’t such a bad idea.
Author: Tarun Gupta